You’re going along, following your plan. You feel great. Your clothes are loose. And then you have one of those days. Or weeks. And you think…
I’ve been so good, I deserve a break.
I just don’t feel like it.
I’ll get back to it as soon as…
Life comes at you fast. Which means you need to expect those days. And weeks. And you need to execute consistently to not only get results, but maintain them. That is…
What gets you there, keeps you there.
That’s why the first four steps are critical to stay on track. They set and then build on a foundation that is doable for the long-term. And by long-term, I mean your life. All of it.
If that sounds scary, take a pause. Consider that everything you do or don’t do – small and large – impacts you down the line. We don’t consider that very often. But I think we need to start. And not in some judgmental I-just-ate-a-cookie-and-I’m-a-fat-pig kind of way. I’m talking about being thoughtful with the things that are important to you.
Do not confuse this with being hyper-vigilant. Obsessive. Perfectionistic. I’m recommending that you be intentional. Otherwise you’ll fall back into default mode, which for most of us is NOT following through.
We’re wired to conserve energy. To take the easiest path. It helped keep us alive for most of human history. But today we need to recognize that the easy way is often the hard way.
A client of mine once shared with me the adage: you can do what’s easy and life will be hard, or you can do what’s hard and life will be easy.
Consider what taking the easy way gets you down the road. Like spending money you haven’t budgeted or ordering another drink, even though you’re at your personal limit. In the moment what’s easy becomes the hard you deal with later. And that later can be weeks or years later, from a budget shortfall for the month to not having enough to retire when you want. From feeling not-so-great the next morning to still struggling with excess weight ten years later.
This final step in my 5-step process – executing consistently – requires that you keep the other steps in play. That means regularly uncovering then transforming your sabotaging thoughts so that you continue to take action towards your health and weight loss goals. It includes being clear on your “why,” keeping it front and center. And then continually experimenting with your plan, noticing what works, refining and doing it all again.
Executing is about living a lifestyle that gets you what you want, and keeps you there. Set yourself up with foods you enjoy and activities you like. Make follow through as easy as possible to stay on track. Keep looking at your thoughts so that you notice when your brain sneaks up on you and starts telling lies (you know, the ones about it being too hard or that you’ll never succeed…yeah, those crummy thoughts).
And don’t wait for it to get easier to stay on track. You’ll simply look up one day and notice that it is.
Stay tuned…because execution is critical, next I’ll talk about “How to keep consistent with healthy habits when life throws you off track.”
4 thoughts on “How to stay on track even when you don’t feel like it”
Sometimes it’s like you’re in my head, or reading my journal! 🙂
Thank you for the very personal and on point reminder to focus on what’s important in my life and to stay on track with the decisions I’ve made to have the life I want.
I love it! 😉
This is good. Thank you.
You’re welcome, Chris!